Is it still taboo?
For women at least, I believe it is. It's the thing we discuss openly only after too many glasses of wine, and the inhibitions have slowly disappeared in a Cabernet haze.
And then, many times, the conversation is limited to "Do you do it?" "Do you use a vibrator?" Or, "I USED to do it. When I was single." That last line I don't believe a bit. I haven't been single in two years, but I still double-click my mouse.
It is a stress reliever for me to be able to bring myself to orgasm. I enjoy doing it. Sometimes it's quick. I just need to relieve tension and I can get myself off in about a minute. But, other times, I drag it out. I bring myself near climax and stop. Bring myself to near climax again, and stop. Do this until I can't take it anymore, and finally, I allow myself to cum, and my fingers are drenched in my own wetness.
That's my fave.
I love it when I have the time to develop a fantasy in my mind. Lately, it has been OMFG and I 69ing. Since, this is still something I have never tried, it makes for perfect fantasy. I keep thinking back to him saying to me, "Think of how I could get in there." He is so forward sometimes with what he wants to do with me, and it turns me on like crazy. So, I'll start with thinking of him saying that. Then, I imagine feeling his tongue probing in and out of me while I suck on that perfect dick of his. Just thinking about it now is getting me wet. I can imagine my hands touching his strong legs, feeling our bodies against eachother, both of us in utter ecstasy. Imagining these things makes me rub my legs and the outside of my pussy lips. When I am ready, I slip my finger inside and find my clit to be hard. It feels electrifying when I touch it and I work myself to orgasm by slowly massaging it with my middle finger. I take my time, and when I am ready, I cum. HARD. And, usually, fall asleep after.
I believe masturbation and a relationship shouldn't cancel each other out. The fact that I understand how my body works, and what I like in bed, makes me a better lover. Most of my girlfriends that admit to me that they don't touch themselves have fairly boring sex lives and aren't great lovers. I know this because, unfortunately, alot of their partners complain to me. It's funny, my friends all know I am very open when it comes to sex, so I hear every one's dirty laundry. I don't mind helping though, even if that makes me the whore of the group.
And honestly, what guy doesn't get turned on by seeing a girl touch herself? Men, I want to know, if your girlfriend saw you undressing and was so turned on she HAD to slip her hand inside her panties and touch herself, wouldn't you be turned on?
My guess, is YES.
7 comments:
Yes, yes, and hell yes! There is nothing more fantastic than watching a woman first masturbate then come to orgasm! It's got to be the sexiest thing in the world to see a woman pleasuring herself.
so if you didn't understand it at the beginning. HELL YES! ;)
I agree with Jim!
Helllllllllll yeah.
Hearing about it. Watching it whatever.
I definately agree with your assessment that chicks who masturbate are better lovers for sure. I also believe they cum quicker and more often during sex.
Never 69? Sheeesh I like that better than fucking.
69ing is intense! Incredible laying there with a hot woman. you in their mouth, and her plastered across my lips! I love to see if I can hold out and give her an orgasm before I wind up exploding.
I agree with Jim and Sage, watching a woman masturbate is beyond hot.
Please sign me up for a session to watch and then dive in face first.
Fabulous post. Big believer in masturbation. In fact, I attribute my first born's chill nature to the fact that I masturbated about a dozen times a week when I was pregnant. Crazy hormones.
My lover says his wife has never masturbated...maybe that is part of the problem?
So i totally get what you're saying with this. The other question I have is, why is it when a woman is open about knowing and liking sex is she shunned a whore? I never understood that. Being a very sexual woman myself I have had no problem making it known that I can please myself and tell other how to please me as well, yet when I mention it, the other females I know freak out. As if I have the plague and not to be talked about. Glad to hear there are more of us out there that realize that to learn oneself it makes it easier for our sex lives to explode.
Absolutely YES! and me a big fan of it. So what if u aren't single! Its a great stress relief... and yeah no better image than the movement of a a woman's hand inside her panty, to masturbate to... lovely.
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